He only agreed to get me to calm down and, well, our daughter is his, but my FIL isn’t my husband’s father.
My in-laws have been married for decades, so the idea that my MIL che:ated on my FIL never crossed either of our minds. My husband wants to deal with his mother, but I’m telling him to wait, that yes, she’s a liar and a hypocrite, but we need to think this through.

I agree that my FIL should be aware, but we’re both exhausted from caring for a newborn, we’ve learned something startling, and we’re not acting logically.
He and I both want to inform his father, but there will be catastrophic consequences. I only intended to provide him comfort, but instead I caused his parents’ marriage to fail and may have destr0yed his family.
We conducted two tests: an ancestry test and a paternity test. I wanted to find out if my daughter’s eye color could have been produced by a relative we were unaware of.