2ď¸âŁÂ Fear of consequences
Leaving can mean financial strain, judgment from others, and limited time with his children.
For many, the fear of losing what theyâve built outweighs the guilt they carry.
3ď¸âŁÂ Emotional dependency
Even when he strays, he might still rely on his wife for emotional balance, encouragement, or a sense of identity.
The affair becomes a distraction, not a true replacement.
4ď¸âŁÂ Avoiding the âbad guyâ label
Walking away makes the wrongdoing undeniable.
By staying, he convinces himself things arenât really that bad â a way to hide from guilt and reality.
5ď¸âŁÂ Waiting for her to leave first
Some lack the courage to end it.
They quietly push limits, hoping sheâll be the one to close the door â so they donât have to.
6ď¸âŁÂ Still attached â in a broken way
Love doesnât always vanish after betrayal.
Sometimes, the feelings remain, just twisted by fear, shame, or confusion.
7ď¸âŁÂ Wanting both worlds
The excitement of the affair and the security of marriage.
He isnât ready to choose â so he avoids making any decision at all.
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